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Let’s Talk Bookish – Balancing Blogging and Life

Aria @ Book Nook Bitsย will be the new host for Letโ€™s Talk Bookish! If you arenโ€™t following her yet, good check out her blog and give her a follow!

August 26:ย Balancing blogging and lifeย (Aria)

Prompts:ย How do you manage balancing blogging and life? In what ways do school and work get in the way of blogging? Are there any ways that blogging can help with everyday life? Are there certain times of year when blogging becomes harder or more overwhelming?


Welcome to a late LTB here at DTRH everyone! Today’s topic is particularly appropriate, since it may be exactly the balance between blogging and life that leaves me late to the party in the first place. Actually, I am blogging from the opposite side of the world that I’m usually on (vacation!) so that could explain it. Still, if I commit to it, I should really do so. But I digress. I want to hear all about you all too!

Balancing blogging and life is honestly pretty difficult. It’s not like you just sit down whenever and churn out a blog post (though that is certainly one way). Especially with the two of us here, at least a bit more planning and forethought has to go into it, and we also of course want to produce quality content for our readers (and ourselves, of course). And as both of us get older, responsibilities pile up, as I’m sure you can all relate. So first and foremost, it’s definitely hard! The main tool that we use here is scheduling though. Just generally knowing what we’re going to post really helps to narrow down decision paralysis, and helps keeps things easier to organize. Time management will always be the biggest asset here, but I know for me personally life can just be so crazy sometimes that even scheduling only accomplishes so much.

If blogging were only jotting down some thoughts, I think I could manage it without a sweat. But when you’re creating content or doing book reviews, we all know here in the community it’s not just the post that takes time. Books have to be read, ideas have to be spun, and if my blog post only takes 15 minutes it’s honestly a miracle (who can relate?). Work and school both just take up blocks of time, and it can be hard to read in small 15-30 min breaks that present themselves. Not to mention that my eyes are usually tired already from the work/school, and that just makes me want to rest just for a bit before getting back into it.

I think the fact that blogging forces me to think a little bit more about my schedule is really helpful for me. AND it helps me read more too! I really enjoy the part of me that has developed every since blogging. Therefore it’s definitely not a regret, and is certainly something I want to continue doing for as long as I can, life shenanigans be damned. I think just being in better connection with books is an improvement or value-add to my life, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Exam season for school is the first thing that comes to mind for hard periods. Same with work, if there’s a particularly busy time. Time is one of those things which you only have so much of, and when things pile up, sometimes it really just is impossible to do all that you want to do even with perfect planning, and it falls to you to re-prioritize. It’s not that I find blogging unimportant, but I do find that it often tends to take the first fall in priority if I don’t personally hold myself more accountable. Not sure if any of you feel that way too! It’s balancing that “hobby” which should be able to be put on hold, versus the fact that if you just let everything trump it in priority, you’ll literally never do your hobby.

How do you all manage blogging when the going gets tough? Let me know in the comments below!


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Let’s Talk Bookish – Unhauling Books

Aria @ Book Nook Bitsย will be the new host for Letโ€™s Talk Bookish! If you arenโ€™t following her yet, good check out her blog and give her a follow!

August 19: Unhauling books (Amber @ Escape Life in the Pages)

Prompts:ย How do you feel about unhauling books? Do you get rid of books often? Or do you hold on to every book you buy? How do you decide which books to get rid of? Are there any books you would never get rid of?


Welcome to another week of LTB here at DTRH, everyone! Today’s topic is a classic, I think most of us book lovers have this problem eventually. So many books we want to buy, but limited on budget and more importantly, space on your shelf! I would love to hear the story of how you all decide which books to get rid of…and how you choose to get rid of them.

I think unhauling is just eventually necessary. Avoid it as long as you can, but I think eventually even the most curated lists will need a bit of a trim. But no one really likes doing it, do they? If you are, let me know below. But I think most of us don’t love to Marie Kondo our shelves, and is probably only done once in a blue moon.

I personally do not get rid of books often. When the book list gets too big, it could be time to do some trades or pass it onto a family member who hasn’t read it. Anything to forestall the unhauling, right? Once every…few years…that bleeds into probably 5-10 years to be honest. I would almost rather not buy books so that I don’t have to throw out old ones!

I generally want to hold onto every book I buy. That’s the whole point of buying them in the first place right? Of course there are those books that I buy that I don’t end up enjoying as much as I thought I would. But even then, unhauling it would definitely be lower on the list of priorities. Better to buy books you do want than to get rid of books you don’t? I guess.

It’s always hard to decide which books to get rid of. I guess for me, at the end of the day, if I didn’t connect with a book or don’t feel too strongly about it, that is reason enough to get rid of it. Otherwise I’d just keep every single book on my shelf which would be rather counterproductive. Something that I haven’t read in a long time (and don’t plan to read again) are also usually candidates on the chopping block.

Conversely, old classics, and series that I’ve collected will always be the hardest to get rid of. And honestly I don’t see myself getting rid of them ever, anyway. There are/were book that were near and dear to my heart, and probably forever will be, and therefore have a permanent space on my shelf! For me, that would be series like Harry Potter, The Chronicles of Narnia, and The Deltora Quest series, for example.

What do you all keep that you just can’t part with? Let me know in the comments below!


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Let’s Talk Bookish – Reviewing Books?

Aria @ Book Nook Bitsย will be the new host for Letโ€™s Talk Bookish! If you arenโ€™t following her yet, good check out her blog and give her a follow!

August 12: Reviewing Books? (Rachel @ A Bookworm in Paradise)

Prompts:ย What makes you want to review or not review a book? Do you review every book you read? Are some books harder to review than others? Do you review books you disliked? If youโ€™ve ever written a ranty review, have you regretted doing so afterwards? Do you delete reviews that are โ€œoutdatedโ€ or donโ€™t follow what you think of the book now?


Welcome to another week of LTB here at DTRH! Today’s topic is all about reviewing books and I know we definitely all have our own habits when it comes to this topic. Can’t wait to see what everyone else has to say, but for now here are my own thoughts!

Exciting covers, synopses, or just general hype around a book will make me want to review it. Nobody wants to review a book they don’t even want to read, so that’s definitely the thing that grabs my attention the most when deciding what to review. The more excited about a book I am, or the more I feel an opinion strongly about it, the easier it is I find to write the review.

Books that are boring or hard to finish often give me the hardest time. I want to give even these books a fair review, and try to say who might enjoy it, even if it’s not me. However, these take more energy to write than something I really enjoyed (or hated), as you might expect. Answering the next prompt, yes I have reviewed books I’ve hated. But, like I said, I do try and find an audience that it might appeal to, and offer it as a possibility. I don’t like condemning books just because I didn’t like them, because who knows, it may be someone’s cup of tea, so I always try to keep that as a caveat.

I feel a lot of my reviews are a bit ranty! Especially the ones for which I have a lot to say. I don’t usually regret it though, they are my thoughts after all. Even if my thoughts were to change afterwards, the thoughts I had at the time are still valid I think! For that reason I don’t go back and delete reviews, but I think it’s okay if people do that. The blog is your self expression, and you can choose to express and curate your image however you like!

Does any of y’all find that you try and soften your negative reviews by saying “someone” might like it? Or is that just me? Let me know in the comments below!