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Let’s Talk Bookish – Do You Prefer Male or Female Protagonists

Letโ€™s Talk Bookish is a weekly meme, hosted byย Rukky @ Eternity Booksย &ย Dani @ Literary Lion,ย where they discuss certain topics, share their opinions, and spread the love by visiting each othersโ€™ posts.

SEPTEMBER 3: DO YOU PREFER MALE OR FEMALE PROTAGONISTS? (MAHITA @ AMATEUR TEEN WRITER)

Prompts:ย When it comes to books, do you prefer male or female protagonists and why? Do you not have a preference? Have you ever not read a book because the protagonist was male/female? Do you think itโ€™s important for children to read protagonists of the opposite gender from them? Do you feel like certain genres have more of a certain gender of protagonist than the other?ย 

Welcome to September, everyone, and a whole new list of LTB topics! Today’s topic is one that I’m happy to discuss, even if I don’t feel like there’s a real reason why I have a preference. But I guess that’s the point of the discussion. Without further ado, let’s go ahead!

Overall, I definitely have a huge preference. and I vastly prefer reading from the perspective of female protagonists. I didn’t realize I had a preference at first. But the more and more books I read, I found that I definitely preferred one over the other. Now that I think about it though, is it more of the characters that I genuinely feel more connection with? Or is it something about the way male characters are written (in general) that makes me not as interested?

I have never not read a book just because the protagonist was male. I do admit that if I read a synopsis and it features a strong female lead that I will be most intrigued. As I’ve said in a previous LTB post, those plots (and characters) just seem to appeal to me, and I definitely gravitate towards them. I’m not really one for the toxic masculinity trope or even undertones, that’s probably why I stay away from them. I do generally think it’s better in YA though, I haven’t had as much of an issue with that.

I think it is important for children to read protagonists of both genders, just to get broader perspectives. Sometimes you can learn things just from reading from the other’s perspective in a book, and realize how the world can be viewed differently from different lenses. That being said though, it’s not exactly a problem if children just happened to be picking all male or all female protagonist books, I’m sure they’ll run into the other type eventually.

Honestly in my genres of choice (mysteries and thrillers), I’d say protagonists are generally female. Probably because that lends itself to the suspense and “defenselessness” that is more inherently expected. Or perhaps I’m completely biased because I tend to pick books with female protagonists? If anyone else knows, please let me know below. That’s my own reasoning for why I think that’s so, but maybe I’m totally off!

How about you all? Do you prefer male or female protagonists? Honestly I feel like everyone just seems to have their own preference (or no preference), I’m interested to see what people’s reasoning for it is. Let me know in the comments below!


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Anticipated Books Coming September 2021

Welcome to September everyone! Time honestly flies way, way too quickly, and it’s back to school for me, and I’m sure for a lot of you too. I just hope I have enough time to read all these upcoming books. This month we have sooo many anticipated reads, some of which we have been looking forward to for a long time! As usual, I have linked goodreads for your convenience. Without further ado, let’s see what is coming down the hatch!

September 7

The Hawthorne Legacy (The Inheritance Games #2) by Jennifer Lynn Barnes
The Last Legacy by Adrienne Young

September 14

Defy the Night by Brigid Kemmerer
White Smoke by Tiffany D. Jackson

September 21

The Bronzed Beasts by Roshani Chokshi
Iron Widow (Iron Widow #1) by Xiran Jay Zhao

September 28

Once Upon a Broken Heart by Stephanie Garber
Steelstriker by Marie Lu
Beasts of Prey by Ayana Gray
Dark Rise by C.S. Pacat
The Last Graduate (The Scholomance #2) by Naomi Novik
Before We Disappear by Shaun David Hutchinson


And that’s a wrap! Are there any that you’re looking forward to that we missed? Let us know in the comments below!

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Let’s Talk Bookish – Having a Blogger Identity Crisis

Letโ€™s Talk Bookish is a weekly meme, hosted byย Rukky @ Eternity Booksย &ย Dani @ Literary Lion,ย where they discuss certain topics, share their opinions, and spread the love by visiting each othersโ€™ posts.

AUGUST 27: HAVING A BLOGGER IDENTITY CRISIS (RUKKY)

Prompts:ย Have you ever had a blogger identity crisis? What triggered it? How did you get over it? Has an identity crisis ever led you to significantly change the direction for your blog? Do you think having an identity crisis every once in a while can help you become a better blogger, or is it just a sign of insecurity?

Welcome everyone to the last week of August on LTB! Summer is basically over and it’s back to the regular scheduled programming I guess! Today’s topic is a bit interesting, I wonder how many people have experienced it and where it has led them on their blog. Without further ado, here we go!

I haven’t really had a personal blogger identity crisis here. I think I recognize that this really is just a platform for me to express myself in whatever way I see fit, in a way that’s hopefully also interesting to you as an audience. That being said, I think we are pretty comfortable here at DRTH to also change as the time goes – sometimes we’re even too busy for our own blog and I think that’s okay. The blog doesn’t have to be a perfect reflection of our lives, but it doesn’t have to be something stagnant and unwavering all the time either.

I don’t think (although I speak mostly for myself here) that either of us here have really had an identity crisis here with regards to our blog. I think we constantly keep in touch and work together on which way we want to push our blog forward. What new content do people want to see? What content do we want to see? I think these all become important questions and will drive the course of our blog.

However, especially though with bigger blogs out there, I totally understand the need to keep up with what you have always done and what got you there in the first place. I also don’t know what we would do here at DTRH if we had triple or ten times the number of followers. Would we feel differently if we felt a connection between what we posted and what we owe our followers?

Obviously I know most readers don’t actually expect anything unreasonable from the bloggers they follow, but that little bit of expectation can always fester into something more sinister. The obligation we feel as bloggers – I know people can relate – is one that many of us experience. Yet it is definitely still something to be enjoyed so I want to remind any of you who might feel the pressure building, that I as a follower would always be understanding of a blogger’s personal situation! Don’t feel the need to be anyone in particular or a version of yourself that you no longer relate to. We can grow as an audience just as well as you can grow as a blogger.

At the risk of sounding more and more preachy, I will stop here for today. Have any of you had an blogging identity crisis? Or relate to the invisible pressure of having to put out certain content? Let me know in the comments below!