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Let’s Talk Bookish – Are Reading Goals Worth it?

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January 12: Are Reading Goals Worth It?

Prompts: Did you set reading goals for 2024? Have you set reading goals in past years? Do they motivate you to read more, or do they make reading more stressful? What kinds of goals, if any, are the most motivating to you? Have you noticed a change in your reading since you started blogging? How about goals you set?

Welcome back to another week of LTB here at DTRH, everyone! Today’s topic dives into reading goals, and whether they’re actually worth it or not. Also, do they even work? I’m sure there are differing opinions on this, though I feel like it’s very common in the bookish community to at least set a minimum number of books as a goal per year.

I didn’t set anything too concrete as a reading goal in 2024. I set a rather modest number of books as a goal, but nothing much beyond that. Between all the busy-ness of life, it’s really easy to plan too much and have a lot of things fall to the wayside as the schedule for the year actually shapes up. I think this year will be another year of just a vague number that I will probably reach. I think I will try and set little goals along the way if anything pops up, but I try not to be overly ambitious just because it’s January.

I think the goal can be both motivating and stressful. One the one hand it reminds me that I wanted to read a certain number of books. On the other hand, if I don’t want to read then it just reminds me of how much I haven’t read and still don’t want to read. I think I know my goals are generally reachable, so I don’t need to stress too much about it. Therefore for me, goals are mostly just motivational, and a small track record of my progress throughout the year. There are inevitably slower and faster months, and I think I have gotten used to that for the most part.

I usually just pick an arbitrary number as my bookish reading goal, but I think I will also slowly think of other small goals I may want to do in the near future, be it genre, author, or perhaps topic-related goals. I find that little short-term goals with a more specific objective in mind tends to help me to be focused on the goal, and to encourage me to continue. Often this will be set off by a particular book, and I think getting the ball rolling is important to timely completion of the goal.

I definitely have noticed a change since blogging. I often think of whether the book I read would be up for review on the blog, and if not, perhaps it may have to take the backburner sometimes. But most of the time I am into reading thrillers, and of course I just want to provide as comprehensive a library as possible (slowly!) for readers, and honestly, myself.

My goals haven’t changed too too much over the years, and I think I like it and will continue with it. It allows me to be flexible when things come up for better or for worse, and if I make it over my goal, that’s great! And even if not, it really isn’t a big deal. I mostly just want to make sure that I was able to enjoy my year of reading, and to not forget about it too often, which I think blogging has helped with significantly.

How about you all? Are goals more encouraging or more of a hinderance? Or does it depend on the kind of goal? Let me know what works for you all in the comments below!

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Review: The Husbands by Chandler Baker

Nora Spangler is a successful attorney but when it comes to domestic life, she packs the lunches, schedules the doctor appointments, knows where the extra paper towel rolls are, and designs and orders the holiday cards. Her husband works hard, too… but why does it seem like she is always working so much harder?

When the Spanglers go house hunting in Dynasty Ranch, an exclusive suburban neighborhood, Nora meets a group of high-powered women–a tech CEO, a neurosurgeon, an award-winning therapist, a bestselling author–with enviably supportive husbands. When she agrees to help with a resident’s wrongful death case, she is pulled into the lives of the women there. She finds the air is different in Dynasty Ranch. The women aren’t hanging on by a thread.

But as the case unravels, Nora uncovers a plot that may explain the secret to having-it-all. One that’s worth killing for. Calling to mind a Stepford Wives gender-swap, The Husbands imagines a world where the burden of the “second shift” is equally shared–and what it may take to get there.



This is one of those books that I randomly picked off the shelf because it was available, and had an intriguing enough premise. Unfortunately, it ultimately fell under the class of what I call underwhelming. The ultimate mystery explanation wasn’t satisfying enough for me, which kind of cast the rest of the book in an unfavourable light, unfortunately.

The Husbands is a book revolves around our protagonist, Nora Spangler, who is struggling with her slightly distant husband and her young child, all while trying to balance making partnership at her law firm. Nora is pregnant, and in contemplation of her second child, the family needs an upgrade in the living situation. Cue in Dynasty Ranch, a neighbourhood full of amazingly successful women that Nora looks up to. When Nora begins to help out with a wrongful death case in the neighbourhood, more and more secrets become clear, as if hiding just beneath the surface. Just what is going on in this seemingly idyllic neighbourhood?

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Let’s Talk Bookish – Reading Wrap-Up

Aria @ Book Nook Bits is the new host for Let’s Talk Bookish! If you aren’t following her yet, good check out her blog and give her a follow!

 January 5: 2023 Reading Wrap-Up

Prompts: Happy New Year! How many books did you read in 2023? What were some of your favorites? Least favorites? Did you meet your reading goals for the year? What do you want to continue in 2024? Any reading-related changes you’re planning to make?

Welcome to a new year of LTB here at DTRH, everyone! It’s the first Friday of January and it’s time for a new topic. Although I did do a mini-reflection last week, that doesn’t stop me from going through some of these more concrete questions here in today’s prompt!

I think I read about 40 books last year in 2023, and I really ramped it up at the end. There were, as usual, periods of no reading and periods of binge-reading. But overall I think it was a great time. I don’t want to pressure myself too much to read when I have too many non-pleasure (read: work and school) readings to do already, just to make sure I keep the fun in reading, for which I think I have so far been successful!

Some of my favourites included The Only One Left, Babel, and The Ivory Key series. Many of these were surprising finds, but definitely gave me new hope into each of their genres. I was beginning to think that my standards have become too high, but nope, books can definitely still hit the mark, I just have the find the right book. That’s a relief for sure. As for least favourites…well, no need to bash those authors. I’d rather just forget them.

My goal was set around only 30, so I certainly met that goal! I have a friend who has made it a new goal to be more intentional with their reading, rather than just to meet a certain number. So their goal is to read from certain genres and certain authors, all to intentionally create a list for their goal. While I don’t think I will be doing something so concrete, I think I also want to err on the side of reading things that will matter to me, rather than just reading to fill the time or to reach a book count.

I’d definitely love to slip in a few more fantasies if I can, though I’m usually scared to start them as they tend to be longer. But other than that, I think I’ll be sticking to the regular scheduled programming, and hopefully get a chance to read more ARCs this year to review!

What are all your plans for this year? Sticking to the same old or trying something different? Let me know in the comments below!